Question of the day:
"Ever dump on a friend?"
Seriously. Ever thrown a real friend under the bus? I never have. EVER. Have I angered friends, pissed off friends, ended friendships? Of course.
But intentionally...deliberately...quantifiably...maliciously...tossed a true friend into the pit with the Lions?
I wouldn't even know how. Wait...strike that last comment. I actually would know how, because I've seen it done, as well as had it done to me.
As recently as today.
A friend...a co-worker...a confidant on the highest order...someone I had personally seen to it that they received extra bonus money; extra praise heaped upon them by upper management; even an extra promotion that they probably didn't deserve...
Dumped on me.
Spit on me.
Let me down.
Abandoned and forgot about everything done for them - by me.
For no reason other than to do it.
Without provocation or excuse.
In a public setting, no less.
And to top it off...the information forwarded for all to hear was total bullshit.
We live in a sad, sad, sad, sad, world. Respect, loyalty, and personal accountability are just words on a poster on the HR office walls. They're neither adhered to or believed, therefore we live in a sad, sad, sad, world.
And today...I'm the king of the sad people. Tomorrow, it'll all be yesterday's news and not worth two lines in a paragraph. But today, sadness and betrayal get top billing.
That's why anyone outside of the blog world who knows me....knows I have 3, perhaps 4...friends. I'm leery of forming any, because as of tonight, I'm down 1.
Again.
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2 comments:
I'm really sorry...that sucks...it does..
But remember...what goes around comes around..and karma finds it's way. Not to wish anyone ill...but it does seem to come round again.
Obviously that person wasn't a true friend afterall..real friends don't do that to one another..they just don't.
:-(
HUGS!!
Nope...they don't. Not TRUE friends.
That's why I'm cautious...not cautious enough in this particular case.
Sad.
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